9 Approaches that Get Even Timid Guys Excited Enough to Spend the Night with You

2. Say “I’m getting sleepy…” and lean against him.


“That would make me feel like she really trusts me completely,” said one guy. Leaning against a guy can send the message, “I feel safe with you!” It seems to drive the point home for a lot of guys. If you’re in a romantic situation, like sitting on a bench together at twilight, this message will probably stimulate him to take things to the next level.