9 Approaches that Get Even Timid Guys Excited Enough to Spend the Night with You

5. Just blurt it out in a straightforward way: “I want to spend more time together…”


“There’s no misunderstanding that,” said one guy. This shows that if you say things straight out, even the most clueless guy will have no choice but to take action. If you’ve been on lots of dates together but he hasn’t made the next move, you probably need to express your feelings to him more directly.