9 Instances where Women “Tried Too Hard and Failed” When Meeting a Guy for the First Time

6. You were nice to everyone and he became guarded, thinking, “She’s everyone’s friend”

“I was just being kind, and he tells me I’m ‘scheming.’” When you try too hard, guys might suspect you of not wanting to make enemies and being “everyone’s friend.” He might find you more approachable if you add some dark humor, by saying something like “Yeah, right, I’m a hypocrite.”