9. When appropriate, point out examples of traits that you like, using them as a hint, like “I think it’s great that considerate guys are becoming popular.”
“I often comment on positive behavior when we’re watching TV.” In this way, some women indirectly urge their boyfriends to improve themselves. Try pointing out men whose characteristics reflect what you want to see in your boyfriend. You might need to be more direct if your boyfriend doesn’t get it after a few tries.