5 Messages to Make Him Notice You Want to Go On a Date

4. Tell him you’re not busy by saying, “I don’t have much to do these days.”

Mentioning that you have lot of time on your hands can be an effective way to get a guy to ask you out. It’s a more subtle approach that many women use. “It’s a way to let him know he can ask you out at any time,” a teen explained. However, you need to be careful not to be too persistent, so as not to burden him.