4. “Where shall we go next?”
“When I’m on pins and needles about the first date, a suggestion to go on a second date is a welcome relief!” a man in his 20s says, sighing with gratitude. “Besides, it’s a clear indication that she likes me!” Your anticipation for the follow-up date not only gives him a sense of security that the first date was a success, but it will also assure him that you’ve made up your mind about him as a boyfriend. No other comment is more encouraging to him than this one. Men also commented that they particularly liked when women took the initiative to express where they wanted to go.