9 Reasons Why He Does Not Show His Affection

2. I don’t know when to say it.

They wish they could be spontaneous and say “I love you,” but they are unsure about the timing. “Once I brought myself to tell her I loved her, but I guess I misjudged the timing. She was totally turned off. Since then, I haven’t said it again.” If he is not a tactful person, finding the right time can be awkward and challenging.