9 Words and Behaviors from a Girl that Can Make Her Boyfriend Feel Insecure

2. She’s always fiddling with her phone

When a girl fiddles with her phone for long periods of time, he can feel that she’s preoccupied with other things – in other words, anything but him. “Maybe she’s not interested in me anymore?” In order to avoid making him unnecessarily anxious, when there are straightforward circumstances – like work or a sudden request from a friend – help put his mind at ease by telling him why you need to be on the phone.