3. You tell him off for every little thing.
“Don’t just drop your clothes wherever you go.” “Wash your dishes when you finish eating.” You start to sound like his mom. He is not a child anymore and he has his way of doing things. Chastising him when he does not meet your standards will only infuriate him and things may develop into an argument. If you can’t ignore his habits, make subtle suggestions. Try to ease him into correcting his undesirable habits.