9 Things that Make Guys Think Long-Distance Relationships Aren’t Worth the Trouble

5. When she asks, “Where are you now?” and then wants proof.


“When I’m at a drinking party for work, I can’t just take a picture for you,” said one guy. Having their girlfriend trying to monitor their movements from a distance like this makes some guys feel constrained. If you define a rule like “don’t force each other to send messages when you’re busy,” that could help you both feel more at ease on a day-to-day basis.