2. He wants you to pick up the pace, even when he falls quiet.
“I wish I were good at talking, I really do!” cries a man in his early 30s. When they can’t convey their feelings and can’t get the point across, they’re just as frustrated as you are. They’re screaming inside hoping that you’ll read their minds. If you notice that he’s struggling to keep the conversation rolling, take charge instead. Be careful not to ignore his reaction entirely, or you’ll end up being a mere chatterbox.