9 Moments Men Find Sparks in Their Relationships

5. I saw a side of her that I don’t normally see.

“I saw her concentrating on a project at work. I’ve never seen her like that before and it made me appreciate her in a whole new way.” He has seen you only when you are sweet and playful with him, but he may find your serious side just as attractive too. If you don’t work together, invite him to join you for one of your favorite activities. He will be captivated to see your intense focus on something you love.