2. When your boyfriend doesn’t pay attention to you and you are feeling insecure
“I start to look for someone who values me.” It’s common for women to start looking at other guys when things are not going well with their boyfriends. However, guys who flirt with you, even though they know you already have a boyfriend, are often just looking for some fun. First, figure out why your boyfriend is not paying attention to you and have a talk with him.