8. Bringing up events from the past that have nothing to do with the current fight
“I don’t even know what you’re talking about!” Some girls bring up old issues that have already been resolved. If some things from the past are still bothering you, try to talk about them when you’re not fighting and start by apologizing for dredging up the past. This shows your boyfriend how serious you are and makes him more likely to sincerely consider his actions.