3. Acting excessively depressed to try and get sympathy
“That kind of thing is just so obnoxious.” Acting like the heroine in your own personal tragedy is unlikely to draw sympathy, and it may even put him in a bad mood. When your boyfriend is 100% at fault for the fight, rather than getting down in the dumps about, it might be better to just show how disgusted with him you are by saying something like, “I don’t want to see you for a while.” If you do that, it might motivate him to apologize right away.