4. Insinuate that you spend your days off alone: “It’s boring, because my schedule doesn’t match anyone else’s.”
A woman in her 30s said, “A colleague invited me out when I mentioned this. He said, ‘…I’m here for you.’” Let him know that you’re tired of having to spend time alone on your days off. It can be an effective way to encourage him to ask you out. If you sigh as you mention it, he might get worried that you’re feeling lonely.