9 Mindsets to Help You Avoid Becoming Someone’s “Convenience”

5. Don’t carelessly agree to his sudden invitations to go out


“He’ll think that you’re always available!” He might start using you only when he needs to kill time. If a guy asks you out on the day of or even the day before, you should be mentally prepared to turn him down once every two invitations. You can say something like, “I wish I’d known earlier. I already have plans.”