9 Mindsets to Help You Avoid Becoming Someone’s “Convenience”

3. Call it an early night on your first date—no exceptions


“You can’t let your guard down just because you’re on a date.” Some guys may act on their ulterior motive if the date ends late into the night. Even if he begs you to come over to his place, have the strength to say “no.” He won’t be upset as long as you follow up the next day.