8. “I have no desire to do anything now…” Show him how powerless and discouraged you feel at the thought of breaking up.
“If I thought she’d give up her job, that would make me feel some responsibility,” said one guy. Some guys pause if they think that breaking up will have this effect on the girl. If you speak in a monotone, that can be especially terrifying and convincing. The guy will think, “Does she mean that!?” and might just reconsider breaking up.