3. Whether he has a steady job and how busy he is.
“Before I decide to go out with him, I want to make sure he has a decent job and his schedule matches mine,” explains a woman in her early 20s. This is a no-brainer. You need to check into what he does for living and how demanding his job is. While it may be awkward to ask about his employment status (full/part-time, wage vs. salary, etc.), if the topic is cruicial to you, it’s now or never. Ask the question.