4. A guy with whom you can be yourself.
It’s difficult to be in a relationship with someone if you can’t be yourself around him. “You will feel exhausted if you are always trying be someone who you’re not, all just to get him to like you,” a teen commented. If you think you try too hard to be loved, keep in mind that the shortcut to finding happiness in a relationship is to be with someone who accepts you for who you are.