5 Moments When He Considers Ending a Long-Term Relationship

4. When I realized that she was just using me.

“I realized that she wasn’t truly in love with me. She was just after my money and my car. In that moment, I lost all interest in her,” a disappointed young man in his early 20s shares. The moment it becomes obvious to him that you’re dating him for the added perks, he can’t help but feel used. You need to be careful what you say or do, because once he suspects your devious intention, it’s almost impossible to clear your name, even if you didn’t mean it.