5 Disadvantages of Dating a Nice Guy

5. He might not help you grow as a person because he’s too easy on you.

“I love that he’s gentle with me, but he spoils me too much,” explained a woman in her 20s. Having a boyfriend who spoils you too much can negatively affect your desire to grow as a person. If you feel that your boyfriend’s sweetness is starting to hinder your personal development, it’s important that you have the courage to tell him. You can say something like, “You need to stop, because I don’t want to be completely dependent on you. I want to grow.”