5 Disadvantages of Dating a Nice Guy

3. You might feel something is missing because he’s too passive.

“No matter how selfish I am, he just smiles and says, ‘That’s okay.’ It’s starting to get annoying,” said a teen. Some women stop taking their boyfriend seriously when he’s too compliant. Unless you love being controlling, you might lose respect for him for being too passive, and you may not be able to keep up a healthy relationship.