5 Ways to Turn Down a Date Gracefully When You’re Not Available

3. Suggest an alternative date: “Do you happen to be free sometime next week?”


You can also try to make the date happen by finding an alternative day. A woman in her 20s told us, “I try not to let his efforts go to waste by letting him know when I’m available.” Even if your availabilities don’t match in the end, he’ll know that you are keen to go out with him.