5 Ways to Turn Down a Date Gracefully When You’re Not Available

4. Start making plans: “So, when we’re both available, where do you want to go?”

Start discussing what you will do on your date, so he knows that you are up for it. “I think the idea of going on a date becomes more real once you start planning where you will go,” a woman in her 20s commented. Keep talking to him while you’re still feeling excited and try to set a future date.