9 Ways You Might Get Caught Cheating

6. Your secret hookup asks why you can’t hang out on your birthday or Valentine’s

“I couldn’t exactly tell him, ‘Because I’m spending my birthday with my boyfriend!’ He came over on the day anyway, and it was a nightmare.” Deciding between hanging out with your boyfriend or your secret lover definitely isn’t easy and can sometimes lead to fights. Just tell one of them that you spend that day with your family.