3. You text your secret hookup, but send it to the wrong person by accident
“I sent a thank-you message for a date to the wrong person, and I couldn’t cover it up anymore.” Texting or messaging two people at the same time can be risky, because you might end up sending a message to the wrong person. Instead of trying to chat with both people at the same time, say something like, “I’m going to take a shower,” and create a gap in the timing of your messages so you can text them separately.