4. Both guys come to meet you after work and end up running into each other
“When my boyfriend came to meet me after work, it turned out that my other guy had also come to see me without telling me first.” Two guys turning up to pick you up from work or college could be the trigger for a big fight. Lay down some ground rules with the people you’re seeing so their actions don’t overlap, and only ever ask one of them to come pick you up.