4. She has bad experiences because she dates bad boys without realizing
“What’s important is how we feel about each other. I don’t care much about what kind of a guy he is.” Romance-oriented women who focus on “the spark” often end up with problematic guys, such as gamblers or serial cheaters. It’s great to experience that kind of instant attraction to someone, but before acting on this, you should figure out what’s important to you in a relationship—this way, you’ll avoid making the same mistake again.