9 Things to Avoid When You Catch Your Boyfriend Cheating

5. You tell your mutual friends about it and try get them on your side

“I know it’s my fault that I cheated, but she didn’t have to talk to the people around us.” A history of cheating can make a person appear less trustworthy in society, so it’s not something to discuss lightly. If your partner is a working adult, keep in mind also that it’s taboo to disclose such information to his coworkers.