9 Things to Avoid When You Catch Your Boyfriend Cheating

2. You create unnecessary drama, saying something like, “I’m going to die!”

“To be honest, I just got really turned off more than I felt sorry.” Some guys are blind to their own faults and feel appalled when their girlfriends have a dramatic reaction to the situation. If your boyfriend cheated because “he got drunk and lost control,” and feels nothing emotional for the girl he cheated on you with, it might serve you better to discuss it calmly.