4. When she stops messaging altogether after the breakup, even though she was sending texts all the time during the relationship.
“She used to contact me several times a day, and it was kind of annoying at the time but…” said one guy. When that ring tone stops playing, some guys will realize how happy they used to be to hear it. Rather than clinging onto him and continuing to interact after breaking up, cutting off all contact can get the guy’s attention and set his mind in motion.