9 Ways to Show You’re Really Enjoying Yourself in Bed

3. Say, “Oh my god,” and hug him tightly

“It’s OK to lose control and hug tightly.” As your bodies get closer this will add to the intimacy and give him pleasure, too. As you squeeze him, lightly press your nails into his back, just enough to leave a mark. This will be a reminder for him of how much you enjoyed yourself.