8 Things You Can Do to Get in the Groove When Your Partner Wants Sex and You’re Not in the Mood

4. Do it out of love


“I think about how thankful I am to have him in my life.” It’s easy to get carried away and take things for granted. This will be a good chance to express gratitude to your boyfriend. Try doing something for him that you normally wouldn’t do—this will get him to appreciate you more, too.