8 Things You Can Do to Get in the Groove When Your Partner Wants Sex and You’re Not in the Mood

Your partner wants to have sex, but you might not be in the mood because you had a long day at work or school. Sometimes the timing is just not right and you start feeling guilty, because deep down you do want to please your partner but your mind is just not agreeing. Based on a survey conducted on women, we bring you 8 things women do to get in the groove.

1. Start with hugging and touching


“Physical contact can bring intimacy.” Even if you’re not in the mood, hugging can relax you and take your mind off other things, and ultimately get you more excited about sex. Rubbing him around the neck and armpits will get him excited too, and maybe you will feel a change in your mood.