9 Ways to Awaken the “Submissive Side” in a Man

7. When he’s about to orgasm, stop your hand/waist motions

“I tell my guy to always let me know before he’s about to orgasm.” It’s best to let him know you expect this before you start. You can also say things like “Don’t come unless I’m ready!” as if you’re training him, and this should slowly convert him to submissiveness.