9 Ways to Get a Guy to Be Interested in You When He’s Not over His Ex

9. Ask him to be your boyfriend


“I asked him to be my boyfriend when he was starting to feel better and he said ok!” Taking a straightforward approach can be your trump card. Try saying something like, “I’ll make you forget about her!” It might not go well if you pursue him selfishly, so determine the right moment by observing his state of mind.