9 Ways to Get a Guy to Be Interested in You When He’s Not over His Ex

2. Invite him to hang out with you by proposing a plan that appeals to guys


“He might agree to it if I invite him to places he already wanted to go.” You might be able to get him on board by proposing a hangout that is appealing to him, such as saying, “Let’s watch an action movie and take our minds off things!” Rather than making it into a date, just focus on having a good time together.