9 Unfortunate Traits of Woman Who Often End up as Someone’s “Backup Plan,” But Never Anyone’s “First Choice”

8. She doesn’t care about her appearance and she’s not very feminine

“I’m not a big fan of girls who are careless about their appearance.” Many guys respond to traditional “femininity” in women. Playing up your feminine attributes can be surprisingly easy. You can wear a skirt or put on a bit of make-up, at least when you go on a date.