You knew that you had chemistry, but things ended before he asked you to be his girlfriend. Always ending up as someone’s “backup plan” is the sad fate shared by many women, and it turns out that they have even more in common. This time, we surveyed guys to introduce “Unfortunate traits of women who often end up as someone’s ‘backup plan,’ but never anyone’s ‘first choice.’”
1. She doesn’t make him feel special because she has so many guy friends
“I felt like I was just a face in the crowd.” When you have a lot of guy friends, it’s hard for one guy to feel special. You need to be more obvious in the way you approach him. You can tell him things like, “You are the only one.”