9 Unfortunate Traits of Woman Who Often End up as Someone’s “Backup Plan,” But Never Anyone’s “First Choice”

2. She doesn’t seem lovable because she doesn’t know how to depend on him

“She never relies on me. As a guy, I felt something was lacking (wry).” When a guy finds value in being “manly,” he wants his girlfriend to give him opportunities to be chivalrous. To make him feel comfortable, you can go to him with your worries and ask for advice, or ask him to do favors for you.