9 Moments When a Guy Decides Not to Break Up with a Girl in the Face of Her Spunk and Courage

6. When she looks forward to future plans. “Let’s go to a hot springs resort soon!”

“I felt so sorry when I saw how excited my girlfriend was about this trip when she bought a guidebook, that I couldn’t bring myself to talk about breaking up.” Making plans for the future can be a way to forestall a breakup. But you need to be careful that he doesn’t realize that this is a delaying tactic, and you can’t use it too often.