9 Red Flags that Make Him Run for Cover

3. Disses herself for the smallest things: “That is just typical for me…”


“When she gets down on herself, it is difficult to deal with.” When she is too willing to beat herself up, her boyfriend might start to think that she is just an unredeemable pessimist. For example, after a fight, it is important for her to not blame herself. She should chill out, cheer up, and think positively about the relationship in order to completely clear the air between them.