9. She said, “I’m saving up for our marriage” and wouldn’t spend money, but then I found out she had lots of debts.
“I believed you, and paid for everything on our dates. What does that make me?” said one guy. This kind of lie abuses your boyfriend’s trust, and that’s what makes it so harsh and hard for him to take. If you’re broke, just tell him that, and you can enjoy different kinds of dates that aren’t so expensive. Being on the same page as your boyfriend and finding ways to have a good time together frugally is the way to go.