9 Outrageous Reasons Boyfriends Gave for Cheating That Made Their Girlfriend Say, “Are You Serious?”

4. He was testing you to see if your love was real.

“‘If we were meant for each other, an affair wouldn’t be enough to shake our relationship.’ What was he thinking?” Some guys use an affair to test the strength of their girlfriend’s love for them, but this is only an excuse. Try and look on the bright side: “I’m glad I found out about his true selfish nature before things went any further.”