7. He wanted the excitement of cheating to get out of a rut.
“That’s not the kind of thing that’s going to stimulate a relationship!” Some guys expect an affair to spice things up for them, especially if they’re in a long-term relationship. Saying things like, “I would never forgive an affair” or “The reason doesn’t matter, we would break up straightaway” should help put the brakes on any stupid behavior.