5 Ways to Connect with Him Without Drawing Unwanted Attention

You’ve been wanting to capture his attention, but you feel that there are eyes everywhere at work or school. How can you approach him without drawing unwanted attention from other men? Based on the survey we conducted, female readers share some of the unique ways to capture his attention (and only his).

1. You share your concerns or issues with him only.

“I want to send a message to say that he’s the only one I feel comfortable sharing my personal issues with. I want him to get a sense of exclusivity,” a woman tells us. Men like the feeling of women relying on them, and this will motivate them to step up and help you. If you indicate that you’re hesitant to talk openly in public, he may even take you out to dinner or drinks.