9 Things Men Are Secretly Unhappy about in Bed

3. Taking too long to get in the mood for sex


“It takes us a while before she gets in the mood.” Some men find it a bit stressful to have to always wait for the girl to get in the mood. Next time you’re in the mood, try initiating sex yourself. Your man will be happy to know that you’re still attracted to him and his confidence will be restored.