9 “Triggers” That Can Make a Guy Suspect an Affair, Even If It’s Groundless

2. She lets a guy make physical contact without brushing him off.

“There are times when you can’t just reject someone off the bat.” Some girls said they’d been accused of possible feelings for a guy who made contact with them, for whatever reason. If your boyfriend seems unhappy about the contact, no matter how innocent, smooth things over when the two of you are alone by reassuring him that you weren’t into it.